Single girls need lovin'

Last night I met a really cool single girl. She's attractive, funny, appears to be a caring friend and she means a lot to one of my best friends.

But she has an odd outlook on romantic relationships. She's Latina and almost explodes with passion. But she'd rather just fuck and move on than have someone actually care.

I understand where she's coming from - especially if she's had some bad relationships. She said she's been single for three years, which I think is perfectly fine - especially considering she's still only halfway to her mid 20s. I'm certainly not ready for one of those comfy, come-home-from-work-cook-dinner-and-hang-out things.

But we're human. Most people need to feel needed and loved. Having that guy in your life who thinks about you (and you about him) when you're not together and is there when you get home sometimes is amazing. And it's nice to know someone besides your best girl friend gives a shit about your incredible or bad day when you call or text them. And, of course, you give a shit about what's going on in his world too. Nothing can replace these feelings.

I kept thinking about what she said, and I hope she passes this phase. There are good people out there. There are people worthy of your love and trust. The risks are worthwhile to find the partner, friend and lover most single girls hope to have.

Love to the single girls,
Addison