I'm not sure how long it will last but so far so good

This is a direct quote from a woman I met at my friend's birthday party tonight.

I know as well as the next single girl how much of a risk every relationship is. But I also know how important is is to be optimistic. 

Relationships are fuckimg hard to make work. It takes two people determined to make each other happy. And they have to communicate honestly and often and in a way that's nowhere near selfish.

That's why I question the doubt I hear in her statement.

And to paint the rest of the picture, the guy she said this to was sitting between her and another woman. Both women are in committed relationships according to the birthday girl. She thout the scenario was "safe". And both girls appeared to be a lite interested in him.

For the rest of the backstory...the birthday girl dated this guy about ten years ago, and he and I have hung out - and had a juicy little relationship off and on for the last year. 

I constantly learn from these situations. When someone has that level of doubt, stay away. If they can'r commit to another person or get out of one relationship, leave them alone.

Love to the single girls,

Addison