Size

As cliche as it may be, I'm going to say it. Yes, penis size does matter. Sometimes. This is where things get complicated.

People tend to consider cock size like they think about money. There can never be enough, right?

Wrong. There can be enough and there can be too much.

And just like money, there has to be a minimum amount for a girl to survive.

A lady I know has whined for weeks about how she's worried that her boyfriend is younger. I never understand why it's such a huge issue until she finally admitted the real problem. It wasn't just that he doesn't have enough years, he also is lacking in inches. He measures up to about four. That's not much longer than my middle finger. Squeezing those muscles down there will only go so far.

Now in defense of the tiny penis guys, sometimes girls have a lot of empty real estate down there. It's not a topic girls discuss often, but I'm sure it would help to shop around and find one that fits just right.  Play a little Goldicocks like they said in Sex and the City.

Also like money, too much cock can mean trouble - especially for the girl who's too small. It's happened to lots of us girls - that guy or maybe a certain position that feels like someone's cramming a baseball bat up your vagina. ("Yes, babe. Those are tears.") Sex is supposed to feel amazing - better than anything else.

Good sex is important in a relationship even if some say it's no big deal. There's nothing shameful or embarrassing to not be the right fit, and it's certainly better to address it early. If you're not happy with your sex life early on, it won't likely get much better.

Love to the single girls,
Addison