Not every single girl's ready

I'm not sure who's frustrated most - my friends or me.

A couple of friends came over for girls' night dinner. We're all divorced, and they both have boyfriends. But, in my opinion, neither of them should. Like me, they're not ready.

It's not until I get with the girls - and after we consume massive quantities of wine - that I realize how evolved I am in my journey. I see how much I've learned about what to look for in a relationship. I also realize how much I don't know. It feels good to make progress, and want to bring all of the girls along with me.

One of the girls has a boyfriend who disappears regularly. Complete MIA. And when he isn't missing, he should be. He rarely wants to have sex anymore, and she has to do all the work on the occasion that they do. The real deal breaker though is he's never given her head. Ever. Not even to return the favor. What? She finally talked to him about the disappearing act and better communications but not the other. She loves him and wants to make it work. I think it's time for a journey.

The other friend has commented for weeks how she's uncomfortable with a younger boyfriend. He's sweet and totally into her. Once the wine flowed, she admitted feeling like she's cheating on her ex when she's with another man. Then she confessed the sexual shortcomings. And then she whined the rest of the evening about all three issues but would entertain no possible solution.

I suggested therapy. She said talking to her friends was all the therapy she needed.

I wanted to scream.

Love to the single girls,
Addison