How far is too far

Men are getting bolder, but I'm not sure it's a good thing.

Saturday night a band was playing at the pub and a man I've known for months asked me to dance. The band was playing good songs, so I did. But the guy got really close and touchy. It made me uncomfortable.

About halfway through the song I leaned over toward my friend, who was standing close by, "I need a cigarette."

He nodded. "Me too."

I slipped out of my dance partner's grip hoping it was just the alcohol. We never had a cigarette but it worked.

This isn't the only example. My good friend got a text from a guy she knows the other day. It took him four screens to say it, but he wants to fuck her. He has a girlfriend and knows she has a boyfriend, but he didn't care. They're friends. That's all. They've never have been any more and likely never will. It put her in a really awkward spot. Why did he do that?

A man who's married with two young kids is stalking another friend. And he tries to reach her through me. I won't do it and she doesn't respond to his attempts to contact her to find out what conferences she's traveling to. Perhaps he wants to get writing tips from her? And a guy I went out with years ago still tries to get with me. He did when I was married, too. I was a little flattered then, but now it just annoys me. He's also married with kids. I don't know if these marriages happy, but I do know both of these guys talk about what good Christians they are.

All of these men just want sex, and I believe these men are selfish and have little respect for women. No matter the outcome, the girl doesn't win. I love sex, but these situations only mean trouble.

Love to the single girls,
Addison