Honor

My single biggest issue with people is lack of credibility. When I say I'll do something, I do it. Or if I don't or can't for some reason, I explain why. I don't make people ask or beg. I just do it.

But others don't.

I think the old fashioned word for that is honor.

I go through phases thinking people look at me and see doormat. Especially men. It bugs me. it stresses me out when I have to chase people down. Then I feel like I'm being a total bitch

See, I did it too. When it's a woman who has to be persistent or even mean, she's a bitch. Men say to the guy next to him - "she must be on the rag" or "man, she need to be fucked." And being single makes it even worse. But when it's a man, they're just firm. No one makes it personal.

Now if someone wants to see me as a doormat, this is the design I want them to see. People who don't keep their word aren't so welcome.

Credibility is something we single girls really need. We need to be credible, as do our friends. And especially our lovers.

Love to the single girls,
Addison