Last night in the pub, we had one of those random conversations on the topic. There were three girls and two guys, and one of the guys brought it up - after the conversation about body hair.
"I don't like doing it, but I do it anyway," he said. "It's not like it tastes like strawberries and cream."
The other guy was covering his face as his friend talked. "I love it," he said.
Really? "And does any part of any body taste like strawberries and cream?" I asked.
He changed his answer to peaches and cream and I rolled my eyes.
A lot of people seem to just do it because they have to. They don't love it or hate it. I believe it's a cop out answer. You should either do it because you enjoy it - for you and your partner - or don't do it at all. I would never want someone doing something so intimate they didn't want to do.
I have to confess. I grew to hate it with my ex. He was such an ass about it. I never did it good enough or long enough or exactly the way he liked it. With other people, it's fabulous. Then with me, it felt like a power drill. He thought he was the best in the world.
But even more interesting, I brought up the conversation at a party tonight and got a response I never expected anyone to give from one of the women. She only likes giving head after sex. "I want to taste me," she said. "I like the way I taste."
Everyone has their preferences, so make sure you give - and receive - yours.
Love to the single girls,
Addison
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