The nice guy I met a few weeks ago and had the amazing three-day first date with did something he shouldn't have. Last week he ran into bad luck and got caught. While what happened was a little irresponsible, it wasn't that horrible. It cost him a little money, and I'm sure he'll never do it again. It's not the end of the world.
He texted he was too embarrassed to tell me what happened. But now I know, and he has no idea I know.
He's also been silent since Friday night.
In the last week, we've gone from him telling me he was looking forward to outdoing our first date on our second and he would call me tomorrow to make plans for his visit that weekend - to nothing. The last I heard from him was this text, "Yes. I don't use my head sometimes. Call me when you get free."
I replied soon after. "We're human. Don't beat yourself up. You'll be okay. Call you in morning?"
My friend was sleeping off jet lag so I didn't want to wake her. I did call him the next day and got voicemail. I texted three times since and haven't heard back.
I hope he knows I can move beyond a dumb little mistake. We all make them. I've made (and written about) many. Judging would be pointless. We learn and move on.
He's a good man who needs to forgive himself and move on.
Love to the single girls,
Addison
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