Monday, August 5, 2013

A little too much fucking going on

What do you do when you find out your lover is fucking someone you know?

Okay, that's a little unfair. I haven't seen them fucking, but I have seen the signs. I saw her watch her phone throughout dinner, then I spotted his name on the top of a screen of texts. Not long after, she went up to her hotel room. They may or may not hook up, but she was certainly expecting it. She was obsessed with seeing him. And she was a little catty about it all.

She was so obsessed that I thought about texting him and encouraging him to spend time with her. Then she needs to know - or be reminded - that no one person can have him. Monogamy is not his thing. If a girl can't share she shouldn't go there at all.

The fact is, he was hitting on another women right in front of both of us two nights ago.

So what do I do about it?

Probably nothing. We have no commitment. There are no expectations for anything beyond friendship and hot sex. I'm in this for fun. As long as we see each other, communicate and he treats me with respect, I'm happy.

And the sex is and always has been fabulous and safe.

When people travel on business trips without their families - especially to conferences - I've found a little too much fucking goes on.This scenario made me look around the hotel bar tonight and wonder who's fucking whom. I know it was happening. Are that many people in bad marriages? Are they all just that obsessed with having sex? Some may turn into real relationships, and that makes me happy. I do worry about who might be hurt with all of the recreational sex going on. Husbands, wives, children may be back home preparing for a happy home coming that may never happen.

Then there are people like me who who truly were in a bad marriage, and having a lover helped me wise up. Move on. There is no judgment here, but since I have wised up, I can move on when this relationship stops being fulfilling.

Love to the single girls,
Addison


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