Tuesday, December 4, 2012

Under the watchful eye of big sis


My friend and I both had bizarre big sister childhood experience flashbacks today. Actually it was our big sisters' guys. And neither of us are Kardashians.

My friend's sister decided to take her to a pasture in the country where the local high school kids went to drink and smoke weed. The big sis decided her baby sister would drink anyway, so she wanted her to have her first drink together. But while they were there, the college-aged guy my friend's sister really liked secretly kissed both of them. My friend was only 14.

And I had my own big sister story. Our family lived in Europe when I was in high school and she was in college. She took classes at the local university and met a handsome 27-year-old graduate assistant from South America. They dated for months and, although she never told me, I suspect he was the first man she ever had sex with.

Before we returned home to the U.S., I went with her to his place to say goodbye. She made a quick run in his house and left me outside by the car with him. He put his arms around me and said what a beautiful young woman I had grown up to be.

Then his tongue was in my mouth.

My eyes must've been huge when my sister walked back out. This guy started a political party and ran for president of Costa Rica three times. He wasn't successful at that either.

My friend nor I ever told our sisters what happened - when we were 14 and 17 or today as adults. And we're guessing lots of other girls have big secrets from their big sisters too.

Love to the single girls,
Addison




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